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PostPosted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:59 pm 
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Thanks for your tips! There are some good ones here.

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eat a bland diet whenever possible nothing to rich and avoid SPICY foods ud b suprised how horny it can make you
the best things to eat are graham crackers and corn flakes because they were designed for masturbation addicts(I'm completely serious)


Yeah, designed by Kellogg, but he was kind of a nut, and I don't think there's any kind of evidence to support that claim. Plus, Graham Crackers are full of partially hydrogenated oil which isn't good for you. Personally, spicy food (which I like) doesn't affect me in any sexual way, one way or another, but everyone's different.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 2:57 am 
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I have read many of the posts on here with interest, I had my first WD when i was in my 20's and that was only 24 hours after MB.
So the thing about leaving it weeks on end to have a WD is not true in my case.

I had a few more at totally random times durring the night all within a couple of days of MB throughout my 20's.

now i'm in my early 30's and had 3 in the past 2 weeks ! which has never happened before.
My MB and sex habbits have not changed.

But one thing has !

Have had had trouble sleeping (always have) but now I fall asleep with the radio on low volume and wake up after a WD at around 2-4 in the morning.

I think having a WD has far more to do with sleep state than it has to do with when you last MB'ed. Although not having MB for months like some people on here must force the Issue !

My sleep now is for longer but shallower, rather than deeper sleep for less time.

I'm normally a nude sleeper, but last nite i was in breifs and had a WD.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 4:04 pm 
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I think having a WD has far more to do with sleep state than it has to do with when you last MB'ed. Although not having MB for months like some people on here must force the Issue !

i was thinking the same thing when i was new, the first post i made on this forum was how some foods give you WDs, and that because the night before i got a wetdreams after drinking cofee before going to bed. so i concluded that some foods make you have wetdreams.

i think that everyone gets wetdreams, by everyone i mean 98 percent of the population. they might be induced by sleep pattern or by food or by exercise or by lifestyle, who knows, but everyone gets a wetdream.

so let agree that we all get wetdreams, regardless of life style, but when you don't masturbate, your frequency of wetdreams will be higher, and trust me we have a lot of anecdotal evidence, i think this man that recorded his MB and WD for 10 years or something.. and a lot of research evidence to prove it, like in some countries where MB is restricted, more men tend to have wetdream. or just by the member on this forum and what they have experienced, which including me.

there is not a a lot of long term abstainer your age group that still get wetdreams, maybe you can start abstaining to and provide us with some valuable information.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 8:11 pm 
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My MB and sex habits have not changed.

You didn't really mention how frequently you MB and have sex. Someone who MBs/has sex once a week isn't the same as a person who MBs/has sex every day. Keeping that same frequency for 20 years also adds up and makes a big difference -- a person who MBs/has sex only once a week may be a long-term abstainer without even knowing it. This could be a reason why some people can have WDs even though they're still sexually active during their waking hours.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 12:20 am 
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Hello

I'll tell you some tips that (maybe) works

1: Don't mb.
2: think before you go to sleep about anything that makes you horny, then maybe your penis may be you know, (hard xD).

3: Its good, to touch your penis, much people says it's not good to do that, if you want a wet dream. But it is very good, if you want a wet dream. Because that could make you horny or it will give you a good feeling. (you can ask your girlfriend or wife to do that)

4: and when you go to sleep, hold your penis atleast 10 min. (you can pinch your penis too, not too hard, because it would hurt xD)

5: you can also let your girlfriend licks your penis (lol xD). (it's emberassing to say).

6: now, go to sleep.

(do it untill you get a wet dream).
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 29, 2008 12:22 am 
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I suggest that new members lurk for a while before posting, (but not for too long - a few days would be long enough,) so that you understand the etiquette here at WDF. Thanks for reading the FAQ. :)

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 1:48 pm 
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I'm addicted to MB, i can't stop. I MB almost every day, i wanna stop and get the chance to have another WD. But the longest i've stopped is two weeks. I wanna wake up with cum in my underwear, i haven't had a WD sense summer vacation '07. The first time i MB was Dec. '07 and i've been doing it ever sense. The emberassing thing is i can only do it with lotion and im almost out of lotion. My parents don't know i MB, so i can't get anymore lotion. I'm so addicted i tried to get my friend to buy me some lotion. He said he has never had a WD, i had to tell him wat a WD was. He told me he MB about once a month. So how can i stop MB and get to have a WD.

And does anyone pee in the shower?


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 09, 2008 2:32 am 
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I'm sure this has been brought up before, but I didn't see it in this thread- banana's seem to be extremely helpful in bringing WD's, at least for me.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 09, 2008 7:28 pm 
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gr8save wrote:
I'm sure this has been brought up before, but I didn't see it in this thread- banana's seem to be extremely helpful in bringing WD's, at least for me.


I presume you are talking about eating bananas.... not rubbing it on the penis or other ways...

Just kidding :)

May I ask why do you think bananas is helpful?


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 4:02 am 
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psmmmm wrote:
gr8save wrote:
I'm sure this has been brought up before, but I didn't see it in this thread- banana's seem to be extremely helpful in bringing WD's, at least for me.


I presume you are talking about eating bananas.... not rubbing it on the penis or other ways...

Just kidding :)

May I ask why do you think bananas is helpful?


We'll I can't directly prove causality, but it seems like whenever I eat bananas consistently I have much more frequent wet dreams. I think it was thursday who mentioned some chemical in them that may be at work.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 10:57 pm 
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Thursday wrote:
(1) The first thing to do is to abstain from MB - including prostate massage. After a waking 'peak' orgasm, it takes your body two weeks for the hormonal and neurochemical disturbance to end. Always.

(2) It's a good idea to eat a healthy, balanced diet, with supplements as needed, and drink plenty of water. Always.

(3) Try to keep as busy as possible; spend any free time you have exercising and doing hobbies. Exercise and diet are important for health in general, and will help to keep you occupied so you have less opportunity to MB. If your at home bored it's very easy to give in to MB. If you've had a busy day where you've used a lot of energy it will be easier to get to sleep at night, rather than lying awake feeling tempted to MB. At least for the first 30 days.

(4) Initially aim for the target of 30 day of abstinence from MB. After this time period you'll no longer feel the strong desire to MB - you'll no longer be addicted to the dopamine release orgasm causes.

(5) Don't touch your penis/vulva, apart from when absolutely necessary - washing, using the toilet etc. Always.

(6) Avoid anything that will cause you to become sexually excited; this includes art, pornography, and choosing to sexually fantasise. [b]Until you no longer 'need' to MB - approximately 15-30 days.
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in fact, according to this article, you should avoid arousal at any cost, unless it is a foreplay!!

http://en.allexperts.com/q/Urology-Male ... -urine.htm

it is baaaaaaaaaad for your prostate and you only got one. It can also cause semen leakage in urine...plus some other stuff..

also too frequent discharge hurts the prostate..too infrequent discharge with too much arousal, also seems to hurt the prostate as the article above said...

solution, lets focus our life on more useful stuff...easier said the done!!!!


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 03, 2009 6:18 am 
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This is all so helpful... thanks!!


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gr8save wrote:
I'm sure this has been brought up before, but I didn't see it in this thread- banana's seem to be extremely helpful in bringing WD's, at least for me.


I am only a newly converted abstainer trying to get my first WD... BUT.. i laughed when I saw this. The day I last MB (near a week ago, i think twice that day..) After dinner and before bed, I was hungry and I had a Banana but, it was my first one in about 4 years and well, i reckon if I stayed asleep for 30minutes longer I would have went bam! and had one. It was a normal dream but then it kinda went sexual but I had control of it for a moment or 2 but then i started to wake up. 1/2 a second of MB would have got me over but then it wouldnt have been a WD tho, would it... but I was THAT close.

I haven't had any since because (lets say it did give me one) I would feel cheated if I didnt have to work hard for it, you know... like if I gt one after a few days. But once I get close to Day 20 I will be eating banana's every day lol!

Don't know if there is anything chemically that could be related but it sure enough did something for me, even if a one off coincidence. They are high in potassium so maybe there is a small link? It is the only thing I did different that day


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 8:26 am 
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Hi. I'm new here.
I was reading on here and a few people mention not to edge.
I was wondering why? Is there a certain reason. Seems like it might help,but might not.
Is there a reason why?
Just curious.
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 22, 2009 10:25 am 
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^ The reason I would advise not to edge is because it keeps your body in "waking ejaculation/orgasm mode." By edging you are giving your body the message that ejaculation and orgasm will be coming soon by the means of manual stimulation. So there is no reason for your body to start giving you WDs - since it's still expecting you to ejaculate and orgasm after MB'ign. The other more obvious reason not to edge is because it can easily lead to ejaculation.

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No sex!!! Hold back for a week. Petting a girl for hours (but NO Ejaculate), next day petting too... some day, then your balls produce more semen, that can absorb your balls. Your testosterone leve in the sky (and you REALLY WANT RAPING your partner, but: NO EJACULATE!) and will get a huge WD!


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 27, 2009 6:08 pm 
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On edging: I've successfully edged at night while drifting to sleep in order to get a WD. As usual with this forum, I'm a bit of an exception, but edging seems to get my mind focused on "that subject" and make me more likely to have a nocturnal emission.

Also, the case with me tends to be that my dreams lean toward a sexual nature first, and only then does my body react, and not the other way around. i.e. my body doesn't "decide" to discharge its repository of semen and my dreams simply respond by becoming sexual. No no. Only on rare occasion is all.

So yeah. If you want my opinion, I'd say try edging. Don't make it a requirement, but try it. Edge as you drift off into sleep.


Also, my most "successful" WDs happen when I'm in a half-awake state in the early morning. I'll be able to kinda-sorta choose what kind of dream I'm having, and if I can carry it into sexual territory, my brain just take everything that happens very literally. Thus leading to actual orgasm/ejac. without any physical touching or too much effort mentally. :) (And hardly any guilt.)

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This is Timp's advice on how to get a wet dream:

timp wrote:
...I'm 39. I've had wet dreams all my life. When I was younger, the frequency was about once a week; now in my thirties, it is less frequent. I'm married and we have sex 1.5 times a week on average. And I masturbate probably at about that same rate. I have not made any conscious effort to change either of those two factors. The wet dreams still come, when they do, as a result of some other stimulus, usually stress related. But it is a certain kind of stress—stress that is associated with growth, and doing challenging things. And the orgasms that come with that are like an expression of my inner passion to do something even if it is difficult...

For me, there is a high correlation between emotional intensity and wet dreams. Call it stress, call it being high strung (which I guess i have always kind of been), I have plenty of data on this, having had wet dreams pretty much for 25 years now. I get WDs when there are hormones going strong inside me, combined with a peak in tension over something (and for me that doesn't take much, I am just a passionate guy, I guess, and I get to feeling strongly about something, and a wet dream is a common outlet).

And, frankly, a strong orgasm (from masturbation or sex) a day or two prior to the peak in tension is another strong correlation. That seems counter-intuitive, I know, to everyone here who is abstaining so they can have wet dreams. I don't try to abstain, and I promise, I have better wet dreams when I don't. Perhaps it is because sex or jacking off bring on big hormone spikes for me. The most likely scenario is no orgasm for a week or two and then one very strong, intense climax from sex or masturbation. That gets the juices flowing and often in a day or two, a WD follows. A couple of times I've had sex twice in a night. Major out-put, right? And then that SAME NIGHT, a massive WD. Not a lot of ejaculate, cuz I'm depleted, but pleanty of trobing pleasure!

I once had three wet dreams in a single day (two during a nap, and one at night) on the day before I had to give a really big speach (there is the tension factor coming in).

This is not something I'm sure you can schedule, but that is how it works for me. Over and over I am surprised at how the coincidence of (1) a week or more of abstinence, followed by (2) a good strong orgasm, (3) at a time when I'm feeling a little up tight about something, and bam! This has happened dozens of times to me. Promise.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 07, 2009 3:49 pm 
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traveling guy wrote:

Days To Wet Dream
by traveling guy » Sat Jan 14, 2006 3:14 am

I see many questions on the forum concerning how many days wait it is to the first wet dream. I have a technical background and have been reviewing the calender and posts to see what can be learned from the information.

Although I am new here, I have seen indications that a 30 to 45 day wait is typical. It also seems to be concensus that if you are older plan on waiting longer.

Between the posting and the calender, I found 34 members where it could be determined how old the member was and how long they waited for the first WD. Age of the members ranged from 14 to 40 with a median age of 23 (i.e. half were older and half were younger than 23). The wait to first WD ranged from 1 day to 247 (increadible stamina!)

I plotted the data (wish I could post it but bear with me). The results showed an insignificant correlation between age and days waited. (i.e age did not really matter based on the data.) In reviewing the numbers I found that all but 3 had a WD within 60 days. These 3 long waits were not experience by the oldest members and difinitely were out of the norm based on the plotted data.

I should note that the shortest times were also somewhat unusual. There was one WD within one day and three members had WD's within three days. In at least some of these cases the members had abstained for some period of time and slipped up shortly before the WD.

Some of the data:

20 percent had WD within 8 days
40 percent had WD within 20 days
60 percent had WD within 33 days
80 percent had WD within 45 days
90 percent had WD within 60 days
10 percent had WD after 60 days

Summary

With a little patience most will have a WD within one month and almost everyone will have a WD within two months based on the data. For some reason 10 percent must wait much longer.

It appear that those that are older have no need to dispair they will have to wait longer for a WD. The data of this sample shows that a 40 yr old does not generally have to wait any longer than someone that is 20 or even younger than 20.

I hope that members and visiters find this information encouraging and at least somewhat interesting.

Data for the study shown from youngest to oldest.

Age/Days Wait to first WD after abstaining

14year/29days
16/9
17/14
17/20
17/33
18/49
18/60
19/8
19/8
19/19
19/45
20/1
20/28
20/33
21/60
22/3
22/3
23/19
23/58
24/42
25/5
25/38
25/182
26/135
27/39
28/40
28/45
29/5
30/3
30/247
32/32
33/30
37/16
40/21

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Thanks [travelling guy] for your analysis.

Hope from this, my wet dream will be coming soon. I'm 19 years old, going 20 in 2 months time. And I have already abstained for 7 weeks (49days).

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"(1) The first thing to do is to abstain from MB - including prostate massage. After a waking 'peak' orgasm, it takes your body two weeks for the hormonal and neurochemical disturbance to end. Always."

just wondering. If I abstained for 7 days and prostate massage (not sure what it means) would the 2 weeks start over for the neurochemical disturbance to end?

If I happen to MB at waking 'peak' orgasm at 13 days, would it take another 2 weeks for the hormonal/neurochemical disturbance to end?

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Bboy wrote:
"(1) The first thing to do is to abstain from MB - including prostate massage. After a waking 'peak' orgasm, it takes your body two weeks for the hormonal and neurochemical disturbance to end. Always."


Bboy wrote:
just wondering. If I abstained for 7 days and prostate massage (not sure what it means) would the 2 weeks start over for the neurochemical disturbance to end?


It depends whether the prostate massage causes an orgasm. If it does, the answer is yes. If it doesn't, then I'm not sure. Theoretically, draining semen by prostate massage, without an orgasm occurring, may not cause a dopamine surge, since there's no orgasm. Due to there not being a dopamine surge, there wouldn't be an increase in prolactin levels. I say 'theoretically' because I've not seen any experimental evidence to show this to be true. It's a theory at this stage.

A prostate massage is simply when the man's prostate gland is massaged. After some time of continuous massage, semen will start to flow from the man's penis. This may not be accompanied by an orgasm, but I've also read that it may trigger an orgasm - usually though it requires some stimulation of the penis to trigger an orgasm.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate_massage


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate_massage wrote:
Prostate massage and prostate milking are terms used to describe the massage or stimulation of the prostate gland in males, either for medical or sexual purposes.



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If I happen to MB at waking 'peak' orgasm at 13 days, would it take another 2 weeks for the hormonal/neurochemical disturbance to end?


Yes.

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If I were to watch porn after 13 days and an get intense erection, would the 2 week span neurochemical disturbance startover?

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^ Having an erection in itself wont affect your neurochemitry or hormones. Looking at pornography will affect your neurochemitry, but not in exactly the same was having a peak orgasm and ejaculation does. Pornography addicts who withdraw from pornography report withdrawal symptoms from the pornography alone, which shows it affects neurochemistry. This is because the images in pornography are highly stimulating and affect the brain's reward system. Watching pornography on a one-off occasion, as you're asking about, may have some affect on your neurochemistry, but I haven't seen evidence to show it would cause the same affect as masturbating to orgasm and ejaculation.

Looking at pornography could lead you to masturbate, or look at pornography again which could develop into an addiction. Both of these outcomes would lead to a decremental affect on your neurochemistry. So I would advise you don't look at pornography.

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wow, thanks for that very crucial info. now i'll definitely wont try to look at porn again.

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playing with the testicles ruin time span of potentially getting a wetdream?

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^ I would consider this to be edging, which is generally considered [according to anecdotal reports on this forum] detrimental to attaining a WD. Whether edging without reaching orgasm and/or ejaculation will make WDs less likely to occur, in my opinion isn't proven, but I think it will, in theory. My opinion is based on my own experience, and reading about the experiences of others here at WDF. So playing with your testes is like playing with your penis. It's best to keep your hands off both, (Hands Off Policy.) This should be one of the basic rules. Edging of all sorts can obviously lead to orgasm and ejaculation, and even if it doesn't it will not do anything to help you have a WD - all it can possibly lead to is making your WD(s) further away.

So the short answer is: - at best, playing with your testes will not make any difference to your WD timespan. At worst, it will increase the time taken for your WD to occur. So considering this, it's best IMO to keep your hands off your genitals, apart from washing and using the toilet - and when doing these things, don't touch any more than needed. By this I mean don't touch your penis for a prolonged time when using the toilet, and don't rub your penis any more than necessary when washing it with soap or shower get, etc. Common sense really. :techie-hourglass:

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:techie-typing: I found some information about abstaining from MB, from a religious point-of-view. There's some useful information on the page I link to, and there's some information there that I haven't found to be useful. :think: Therefore I don't agree with everything written there, so suggest you visit the page yourself and see if you find anything of value to you. :text-thankyouyellow:

http://ldolphin.org/mormon.html

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focus wrote:
The most frequently asked question from members visiting this forum is: "How do I get a wet dream?"

Please post your methods, tips, suggestions, etc. here. For example, abstaining, eating a certain food, vitamin, whatever you can think of that helps you get a wet dream.


1. Austere abstinence from masterbation
2. Reguar physical and intellectual exercise/read-a-book, jog or swim,ect
3. Relax and meditate if I have the time.

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:text-imnewhere:

Hello, I'm new here. I've been lurking in this thread though :P

I'm wondering whether there are any certain types of food that can actually increases the chance for having WD. Cus I miss them, badly :crying-blue:

Last time, I've been abstaining trying to get WD for about 2 months but then I accidentally, well kind of "on purpose", came and I failed. And I'm on my second try for it. It's been 2 weeks since then. It suks! :angry-banghead:

Anyway, great forum guys :text-bravo:


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