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 Post subject: Blue Balls
PostPosted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:09 am 
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Age: 22
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 0
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 3
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 27 Feb 2010
Sex: Male
Hi there guys,
after only 2 days of abstaining from MB I am already experiencing so-called 'blue balls'. Horribly painful, had a few practicals at uni today and you can imagine how I always tried to go the bathroom and 'touch' these painful things LOL. But, as you prob know applying 'heat' to them does not help at all.
Not it is close to bedtime and I am still suffering. Do you have some advice/tips how I might be able to get rid of that. Possibly without the use of paracetamol/painkillers. Btw, a lot of precum dripping as well. Oh boy, this is getting harder by the day :? :? :?

Thanks a lot guys
wishing you good luck on your 'journey' from Scotland,
Daniel


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 Post subject: Re: Blue Balls
PostPosted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:45 am 
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Age: 24
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 3
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 2-3 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 20 Dec 2009
Sex: Male
"The easiest way to relieve the symptoms of blue balls is ejaculating. The resultant ejaculation jump-starts the sympathetic nervous system, which increases blood flow through the penis area, dissipating the fluid buildup. Even without orgasm, the symptoms of blue balls usually subside within an hour of onset, but they can also last much longer, up to 12 hours or longer in men older than 40. While well known in folklore, there was scant information in the medical literature until an article by Chalett and Nerenberg in Pediatrics 2000 which found little formal data regarding the condition but concluded that "the treatment is sexual release, or perhaps straining to move a very heavy object—in essence doing a Valsalva maneuver."[2] Simply lying down can also sometimes help the pain associated with blue balls.

One folk remedy for blue balls is the cold shower. Putting cold substances on the crotch supposedly helps. Coolnurse.com states that "the cool water of the shower would stimulate new warm blood to the scrotum," but local cooling might instead work by causing arterioles in the scrotal skin to constrict, thus decreasing blood flow to those tissues and allowing fluid to leave the congested areas.[3] Sometimes pseudoephedrine can help quicken the process."


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 Post subject: Re: Blue Balls
PostPosted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 9:57 pm 
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Age: 22
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 0
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 3
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 27 Feb 2010
Sex: Male
Thanks a lot free_man! I tried the shower trick... did not work instantly. After that I went to bed, and this morning it seems to go better. Pain is still there and my body is releasing a lot of pre-cum at the moment. I am very very happy I am starting to abstain... it is kind of horrible to think that I was so highly addicted to MB that my body is sending 'pain' signals in order for me to start MB again (sorry for my English, not a native speaker).
I feel with you free_man and wish you all the luck in the world in order to remain MB-free!!
Cheers!
Dan


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 Post subject: Re: Blue Balls
PostPosted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 11:02 pm 
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 2-3 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 20 Dec 2009
Sex: Male
For me hardest part of the road is done, those 3 weeks, but temptation is still there even after 72 days (wow so many :greetings-clappingyellow: ) abstaining.
Heh when I remember those days at beginning lol. Same situation like you and I was so hard and horny that even a look at porn I would cum. There were moments that I would hit myself and hold myself for table just to control my self and to block those porn images that my brain served to me as if he was begging me to MB! My underwear was wet from precum as if I ejaculated!
Don't worry about english, it's not my native also but main point is we can understand us.


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 Post subject: Re: Blue Balls
PostPosted: Wed Mar 03, 2010 8:11 am 
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Age: 22
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 0
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 3
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 27 Feb 2010
Sex: Male
Oh no!!! I cannot believe it :crying-blue: :crying-blue: :crying-blue: I started edging this afternoon after a stressful day and gave in to MB... bad thing is, I already feel the negative side-effects of my (extremely short) MB session... I feel tired, although I still have tons of work to do. Hate myself for having given in... :angry-banghead: :angry-banghead: :angry-banghead:
Cheers!
Dan


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 Post subject: Re: Blue Balls
PostPosted: Wed Mar 03, 2010 8:32 am 
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Age: 24
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 3
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 2-3 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 20 Dec 2009
Sex: Male
I know it feels terrible but you have to fight it day by day, set a week as your main goal for start. You did last a couple of days so it's a start. Right know only thing that holds me is this year 2010 cause it's like a new start for me and urges do attack me but I'm holding for now.


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 Post subject: Re: Blue Balls
PostPosted: Wed Mar 03, 2010 8:47 am 
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Age: 38
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 8
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 01 May 2014
Sex: Male
Dantheman wrote:
I am very very happy I am starting to abstain... it is kind of horrible to think that I was so highly addicted to MB that my body is sending 'pain' signals in order for me to start MB again


Actually, blue balls are the product of a guy getting aroused for a long time w/out that erection going down (bec of no "release" or sustained stimulation)--the pain is caused by the blood getting constricted in there for a long time, from the muscles in your crotch getting sore, etc. The best "cure" I've heard of, which free_man basically mentioned, is to go outside to a car or something too heavy for you to actually lift. Keeping your back straight and your body very close to the car (you don't want to hurt your back!), squat down with your legs open and hips close to the car, feet pointed out a bit, grab ahold of the back bumper, keep your arms straight down, elbows "locked", and attempt to lift the car up by the bumper. Don't strain yourself too much--basically, what you want to do is to get the blood flowing again in your crotch, this will help alleviate the pain. You won't be lifting from your arms or shoulders so much as you will be pushing up from your crotch and pushing down in your feet. This will help get the blood flowing down there, as those muscles in your crotch will be straining a bit. Be careful, and do this a few times, holding the stretch for a few moments ea time. You may be able to do it w/a bed, too. Just remember to open your legs out a bit, like a plie in ballet, and keep your hips close to the heave object and back straight!!! This isn't a squat where you stick your butt out.

See if that helps!


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 Post subject: Re: Blue Balls
PostPosted: Fri Mar 05, 2010 5:08 am 
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Joined: Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:54 pm
Posts: 636
Age: 27
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 14
Circumcised or Uncut?: Restored (was circumcised, now uncut)
Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 1-2 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 06 Nov 2012
Sex: Male
Hey Dan! I didn't know you were here

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